Yes, because Love gives freedom and Love is surrender. Surrender of EGO and Freedom of one's being, as oneself. Total ACCEPTANCE!

However, in most relationships, often it happens the other way.

People begin to take charge of each other, in love.The possessiveness becomes a regular feature. Both partners are desperate to own each other and this is where the ego issues begin to hype.

However, when there is true love it brings faith, it brings trust and thus readily gives freedom.

Love is a life long connection.That assurance within, will strengthen the bond and thus keep two souls, ever bonded, together.

Yes indeed, it is not that easy. Everyone in love wants to get, what they give.We start feeling possessive about the person we love, for our own insecurities within. The desire of belonging, gets stronger within. This desire led insecurity and possessiveness, leads to expectation.

If I love you, deep down I start expecting the same level, in exchange. I feel complete, only with the other half ! This is where, I go dependent on the other. Now the remote of my happiness in the hands of the other half.

Expectation breeds ego, jealousy and anger. The moment these ensue, we lose our rationale and start feeling all negative. Soon the entire beauty of the relationship falls apart.

On the contrary, if we had clarity, that love is about giving not just getting. Giving will give joy and thus automatically you will become love in yourself.You would WANT the other half but not NEED and thus it will become a matter of choice for you.

While need makes you dependent,want here makes you independent. When you are free at heart you understand the value of giving freedom to the other half.Bottom line? Now your relationship is LOVE BASED not pure need based where you wish to captivate out of possessiveness.

This is where any relation would sustain because there is no compulsion or clinging but open dialogue, love and mutual respect.Typically how best friends, are ever connected?? Purely out of choice. No undue dependence on each other yet ever there for each other.

Try it out with a 100% faith in your partner.

If you have a doubt, I would say review your relationship because love is a matter of faith.