The two have a typical chemistry. At the core, both are loving and kind. Both are sexually awakened. Both are seeking love at the core.
Yet the two fight...primarily because a woman internalizes the love and with 6 times drive in her, becomes a chaser. A Man externalizes the feeling and believes in less communication, other than bodily exchanges.
While men like being chased, because it feeds on their ego at the core...they want their space. So do women but with their man, NOT without them.
Women like being caressed and crave for that exclusive time, and often get trapped beyond the borders, just because someone chooses to give them time and touch upon their finer feelings requisite.
Regretfully most men do it, till they get her & thus the goose chase begins. To begin with, men and then, women. Each time a woman goes astray, this is her plight. Each time a man, chases a woman, he is chased in turn and begins to run!
The circle goes on. This is the Chakravyuh/maze of emotions and relationship between a man and a woman...easy to enter....difficult to exit!
So what is the solution?? Should one never enter this circle??
Not really.....else the universe would lose its essence of love, love making, and thus sustainability. Both need to juggle and balance if a long-term relationship matters... Hence women may consider, allowing forrestricted expressions. In other words restricted desire to communicate or be communicated and men can work a bit on after-play and consistency.
Variety will automatically be ensured if the woman, one is dating, is kept emotionally nourished! If it is just fluff for both dramas anyway.